Award-winning actor Colin Farrell has opened up in a rare and emotional interview about one of the most personal decisions he and his family have ever had to make—the decision to place his beloved son, James, into long-term care. The actor, known for his powerful performances on screen, showed a different kind of strength as he spoke candidly about his 21-year-old son’s ongoing journey living with Angelman syndrome, a rare and complex neuro-genetic disorder that affects the nervous system.
Angelman syndrome, which is often misdiagnosed in early childhood due to its similarities to conditions like cerebral palsy and autism, can lead to significant intellectual and physical developmental challenges. Individuals with Angelman syndrome may experience seizures, have difficulty with movement and balance, and typically do not develop verbal speech. James, who was first misdiagnosed as a toddler, was later accurately diagnosed, bringing both clarity and new challenges to his family.
In his heartfelt reflections, Farrell shared how the decision to place James in a long-term care facility was one rooted not in fear, but in unconditional love, deep responsibility, and long-term planning. “As a parent, your primary job is to protect your child and make sure they are safe and supported, even when you’re no longer around,” he said. “If I have a heart attack tomorrow, and James’s mother, Kim, has a car accident—what then? Who will take care of him?”
Farrell explained that the move to long-term care wasn’t a sign of giving up, but rather an act of preparing for a future that every parent of a child with special needs eventually has to face. Together with James’s mother, Kim Bordenave, the decision was made thoughtfully and with great care, ensuring that James would be in a supportive, nurturing environment where his daily needs would be met consistently and lovingly.
Over the years, Farrell has been transparent about the unique joys and challenges of parenting a child with a disability. He recalled emotional milestones, such as James taking his first steps—a moment that came much later than for most children, but one that carried even more significance because of the effort it took to get there. “He’s worked so hard all his life,” Farrell said, his voice filled with pride. “I’m proud of him every single day. He’s magic.”
Farrell also spoke about the many health issues James has faced, including seizures that once required frequent hospital visits. But there were triumphs too—such as learning to feed himself and controlling seizures through proper medical support and therapies. These moments, big and small, are the ones Farrell says have shaped him the most as both a father and a person.
James’s journey has had a profound impact on Farrell’s life, even influencing his decision to get sober. He credits his son with helping him find purpose and grounding during some of his most difficult personal battles. “James has been my greatest teacher,” he shared. “He’s taught me about patience, resilience, and unconditional love.”
The experience has also driven Farrell to advocate for families facing similar challenges. He recently founded the Colin Farrell Foundation, an organization dedicated to supporting individuals with intellectual and developmental disabilities. Through the foundation, Farrell hopes to create awareness, provide resources, and build a community of support for those who often feel overlooked or isolated.
Speaking publicly for the first time in years about his son’s condition, Farrell said his goal in sharing this story is not only to honor James, but also to let other families know they are not alone. “I want people to know there is support out there, that their struggles are seen, and that there’s strength in asking for help.”
Farrell’s openness serves as a reminder that even those in the spotlight face deeply personal challenges. His honesty has inspired many, proving that vulnerability can be a source of strength. While the decision to place James in long-term care was not an easy one, it was made with immense love, foresight, and the hope of giving him the best life possible.
As Farrell continues to advocate for people with special needs, his story sheds light on the emotional realities many families live with—reminding us all of the importance of compassion, support, and long-term planning when it comes to caring for our loved ones.
